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ON
COLLABORATION
This issue of
the Ingenuity Journal explores the notion of
"collaboration." Our vision at
Ingenuity Ventures is "a world of
collaborative and profitable businesses."
Last issue focused on some new perspectives on
profitability. Collaboration is a means to
creating greater profitability, again, with
benefits on many levels.
The business of
work and life nearly always involves other people,
even if indirectly. Our capacity to produce
results thus depends upon how effectively we work
together with others. The quality of our
relationships also affects the level of enjoyment
on the journey.
When we first
started to explore the concept of collaboration,
we discovered an interesting definition.
While collaborate is commonly understood to mean
"work together," it also means
"cooperate with the enemy" and
"cooperate treasonably." No doubt,
these definitions are a remnant of the cold war
era of spies and counterspies; but when working
with others, notions such as the difficulty in
reaching consensus, overcoming differences and so
on, are not far behind. The successful
pursuit of collaboration in any group activity,
whether at the office or the PTA, requires the
consideration of handling conflict. It is
something we can expect (anticipate and address)
in working with others, since people generally
come to projects with their own motives,
perspectives and interests. Even if we have
a shared intention to produce a particular result,
we may have very different reasons for wanting
that result.
How to begin?
Overused as jargon (and often under-applied),
using a win/win approach is at the heart of
collaboration. We like to think of it as
WIN/WIN, since WIN/win is akin to win/lose.
And aside from the sports world, there really is
no win/lose -- there is only lose/lose. When
someone wins without taking into account the
interests of others or at their expense, it is
often a hollow victory and one fraught with later
difficulties.
When looking at
other interaction and problem-solving models this
becomes more apparent. The two sides of the
WIN/WIN equation can be seen as a focus on self
and a focus on others. A high regard for
oneself results in a demonstrated ability to
strongly assert ones ideas and needs. A high
regard for others is demonstrated by a keen
ability to cooperate and demonstrate understanding
and compassion of another’s interests.
Conversely, a low regard for self shows up as low
assertiveness, and a low regard for others results
in poor cooperation. Combining these ideas
in various ways reveals the applicable approach
toward working with others.
Here are some
examples:
* Where
there is a low regard for self and low
assertiveness coupled with a low regard for
others, the result is AVOIDANCE – definitely not
a WIN/WIN result, because generally when an issue
or concern is avoided there is no resolution of it
whatsoever.
* Where
concern for self and the level of assertiveness is
high, but the concern for others and cooperation
is low, the result is strong COMPETITION often
resulting in win/lose. (Hence the name,
“Competitive Sports.”) And while that
approach works in the sports world where it is a
stated ground rule, it doesn’t work as well in
other arenas where we are trying to cooperate to
get things done effectively and efficiently
(profitably).
* Where
concern for self and assertiveness are low and
concern for others is high, the result is called
ACCOMMODATION. People who regularly give up
their own ideas and concerns for others, which may
look like win/WIN (a version of lose/win), may
develop a sense of resentment after awhile.
* When
concern for self and concern for others is
moderate and even, the result is a COMPROMISE
approach. This is not WIN/WIN because it
essentially requires both participants give up
something, looking again more like lose/lose.
None of these approaches is collaborative.
On the other
hand, where regard for self and the level of
assertiveness is high (strong willingness to WIN),
and the regard for others and willingness to
cooperate is also high (strong willingness to
allow others to WIN), the result is COLLABORATION.
Big WIN/Big WIN.
Know
what a “WIN” looks like for you. Be
willing to explore another’s interests and
invest in allowing them to “WIN,” too.
Together, this allows what could otherwise be a
conflict of interests or ideas to become a
resolution that benefits both parties. That
collaborative approach also provides strong
support for the ultimate result sought and
obtained. In that sense, collaboration is
win/win/win – and if the resolution or result
benefits third parties, the stronger and more
sustainable result creates a fourth level of
“win” as well. Collaboration is truly
synergistic – greater than the sum of its parts
– and worth the effort.
INGENUITY
GEM:
To get started
on the road to greater collaboration, start by
knowing what it takes for you to truly win in any
situation. Be willing to hold onto that win
and compassionately assert what you want.
Think creatively about how to get there, rather
than letting go of what you want and dropping down
to compromise, or worse, merely accommodating
others. At the same time, be willing to
listen for the interests, ideas and reasons of
others involved in the project, activity or other
relationship based task; as well as, be willing to
think creatively about how they can get what is
important to them without giving up anything.
While this approach may take a bit more time,
focus and effort initially, the overall long term
results may be more than you dreamed possible.
And the exercise of being innovative in taking all
interests into account ultimately strengthens your
ability to create bigger and better results,
faster and easier, for all concerned.
INGENUITY VENTURES™
is a business partnership of two coaching
companies: Thrive!!® Inc., Dolly
M. Garlo, R.N., J.D., President; and SuccessWorks®,
Michele Henkle Irelan, President. Reach
Dolly at dmgarlo@AllThrive.com.
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quote attributed to anthropologist Margaret Mead:
"Never doubt that a small group of
thoughtful, committed citizens can change the
world. Indeed, it is the only thing that ever
has." COPYRIGHT 2001-2003, by Ingenuity
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